still pondering

Here's a link to a great series on helping friends who are grieving. I've been reading her series and hesitated to post a link because I don't want any of you to think I was posting it to *nudge* *nudge*, give you some passive sort of idea for how to talk to me. I changed my mind though when I recently spoke with an old friend, whom I hadn't seen in years, about our loss and found out she lost a baby a few years ago too. That conversation reminded me that all of us encounter people who are grieving and even when you've been through it recently, it helps to be reminded what those people need. So here's the link. It's on part 7 now and each post has a link to the previous installment.